Past Principal Points

Parent/Teacher Interviews

Parent-Teacher Interviews are coming up this week! These meetings provide an opportunity for two-way communication regarding the progress of children in the school. The goal is to help the home and school work more effectively together. While, generally, these meetings are very productive and encouraging, they can be just the opposite unless one understands some of the common pitfalls to avoid.

First, there is sometimes a tendency on the part of both parents and teachers to be defensive. Parents are concerned that the achievement and behavior of their children may reflect negatively on their home. Teachers are concerned about the same things being a reflection of their classroom. We need to remember that we are working side by side in the cause of Christ, and seek ways to be of service to one another.

Second, there can be a tendency to focus on problems exclusively. The problems are important, to be sure, but they should be kept in perspective. God has created each child with strengths and weaknesses, gifts and shortcomings, all of which should be considered. Don't forget to celebrate the accomplishments and positive character traits of each child.

Third, there is a tendency to focus on the past. Discussion of problems in the past should lead to some ideas for solutions in the future. If there have been problems, we should look for ways to avoid them, if successes, we should look for ways to build upon them.

Fourth, there often is a lingering fear that the concerns (on both sides) will not be taken seriously. Sometimes this is because the things discussed in the interview are forgotten or were unclear to begin with. Making notes during the interview can help keep things clear later on. A follow-up phone call can be a big help to ensure that parents and teachers are continuing to work for the same goals.

Parent Teacher Interviews in Christian schools are usually a time of great encouragement for both parents and teachers. It is a time for both to realize once again that not only are we working together, but the Holy Spirit is also at work helping us and our children to achieve our common goals. To know that prayers are going up to God at both home and school for parents, teachers, and students alike is a great comfort to us all.

Yours in the unity of the Spirit,

Brian Hazeltine

Principal

P.S.: Please bring your children’s Report Cards to the interview. Thanks!